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This Girl on Text Chat wasn't Interested in Educated Guys!

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ASHOOR

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slit, just like many before you, you misunderstood me too. It was a normal conversation, and what else is there to talk about when you just got to know the person? you start with location, age, etc....then you start with education. And I am not going to hide my education because the person on the other side is not interested in it. Hell with them, I am interested in it.

Again: it is one thing to be educated and quiet another to hate education. This girl hated education out right!

ASHOOR
 

Cookie

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Actually what a GREAT topic, in the area of being educated or not, I think I'll go post my random question of the day haha
 

ASHOOR

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It is an insult to all the Assyrian girls from this forum and elsewhere, when you hear someone like this putting their education down. Imagine a girl out there, working hard on her higher education, and then meet a person like this who doesn't recognize the value of education. Of course, no one is studying to please her, but it is not good to put educated people down, just like it is not good to put uneducated people down.

ASHOOR
 

SlitUrAnkles

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etar moot srakha breeshan? no one said to hide ur education.? just like u, she didnt want to hide her lack of education, and/or lack of interest in it.? she doesnt value it big deal? u dont need to prove urself to anyone...people who work hard for an education should be doing it for themselves...not for others to look up to them.? maybe u should look at ur reasons? :bangin:
again...education doesnt make u or break u.? i think ur just upset she wasnt impressed? :angel2:
ASHOOR said:
slit, just like many before you, you misunderstood me too. It was a normal conversation, and what else is there to talk about when you just got to know the person? you start with location, age, etc....then you start with education. And I am not going to hide my education because the person on the other side is not interested in it. Hell with them, I am interested in it.

Again: it is one thing to be educated and quiet another to hate education. This girl hated education out right!

ASHOOR
 

BLUEICE

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ASHOOR said:
I was on the text chat yesterday, for the first time in many weeks (under my name, not an admin)
I started talking to a girl, and the conversationg was going great.

Then I opened the subject of education, which I always do. I just like to talk about it.
I preceded to tell her about my education background and degree. Sadly enough, she seemed not
very interested in this aspect of the conversation. She told me, and I quote:

"I don't care about a guy's education...degree, doctor, masters, doesn't bother me. Even if a guy
has no high school education, it doesn't bother me. In fact, I would rather a guy with no
education..."

It was kinda weired really. I mean it is her choice not to care about a guy's education, but to actually say it in such a way, is just a big turn-off. You work so hard on your education, and then meet a person like this who doesn't appreciate it, is really not encouraging. Of course, I didn't study to impress this girl or anyone else. But education is something that people should look to, and be interested in.

I had to end the conversation right there, not because of her interest in school alone, but the way in which she went about saying it. I didn't even ask her about her own education.

I howver, did invite her to the forums, so if she is registered by now, feel free to defend yourself ;)




ASHOOR
Shes lost and she comes from a household that doesnt value education which is sad.
 

Cookie

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JujU said:
Marboush said:
My husband has his degree from western university but his career doesnt have any link to his education.  He works for TTC as a streetcar driver making a lot more than he did with the use of his degree...

Its good to have that degree to fall back on but its not a prerequisite in finding someone to love and cherish for the rest of your life.  Understanding and Communication are important... :beee:
TTC drivers make a lot.  I saw an ad in the employment section and it's a reasonable pay for a beginner, an hour it's $19.23 but I had a customer who drives the bus and I was curious to know if he enjoyed his job; although he said he only liked it for the pay, he also mention that he gets paid more because of some union thing that happened. 

ultoMa said:
sydneydude said:
to be honest i dont want an educated girl either...
damn straight....they're easier to manipulate that way.

can't go wrong with a dumbass...
LMAO.... :yourock:

I think some guys are intimidated by an intelligent girl.  Unfortunately, I have met a few  :baby:
Juju took the words right out of my mouth, so true :(
 

ASHOOR

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An educated girl is a beautiful thing and if guys don't like it, oh well, that is just their opinion.

ASHOOR
 

ASHOOR

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ASHOOR said:
I was on the text chat yesterday, for the first time in many weeks (under my name, not an admin)
I started talking to a girl, and the conversationg was going great.

Then I opened the subject of education, which I always do. I just like to talk about it.
I preceded to tell her about my education background and degree. Sadly enough, she seemed not
very interested in this aspect of the conversation. She told me, and I quote:

"I don't care about a guy's education...degree, doctor, masters, doesn't bother me. Even if a guy
has no high school education, it doesn't bother me. In fact, I would rather a guy with no
education..."

It was kinda weired really. I mean it is her choice not to care about a guy's education, but to actually say it in such a way, is just a big turn-off. You work so hard on your education, and then meet a person like this who doesn't appreciate it, is really not encouraging. Of course, I didn't study to impress this girl or anyone else. But education is something that people should look to, and be interested in.

I had to end the conversation right there, not because of her interest in school alone, but the way in which she went about saying it. I didn't even ask her about her own education.

I howver, did invite her to the forums, so if she is registered by now, feel free to defend yourself ;)




ASHOOR

hey don't make fun of me, because as you can see from the above post, i got the word right. but not sure why i screwed it up later ;) LOL
 

RadRides

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I find that having a woman who is much more intelligent than I makes for an even better relationship.  True what they say, behind every great man is a great woman.  Education comes in many forms and it starts with upbringing.  I feel that every person should have a proper upbringing and be educated on the common things in life, without those, you're dead in the water.  A school education is a must as well, but intelligence far exceeds the degree you have. 
 

ultoMa

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holy shit dudes, to each his own...who gives a shit if someone doesn't value education or gladly degrades it, they are entitled to their own opinions...

we know nothing about this girl...her background, her upbringing, etc....all we have is this "chat" that ashoor had with her, which means we have no right to judge her beliefs...

if she doesn't think education is important, so what?
 

shoemaker

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Senalko said:
Education is not Academic but rathar a process that starts from your own home, and u Build on it from your childhood until u become a Grown up Adult...

There is nothing worse in the world than an unedcuated person, guys or girls... How unattractive it is to be with someone who doesnt know whats going on around them, or someone who gives little Value to hard work, manners, decency, honesty, trust and most of all LOVE..


All these come from Education...thieves dont choose to become Thieves....their lack of education wether its at home or school is what drives them to do bad things!!!!
education and common sense are 2 different things. Education is academic. When people ask you about your education do you answer with "i had good parenting"?
 

Angel2

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education is a plus, but I personally don't care if a guy has his PHD/MA/BA or not......because I've seen plenty who had a degree and they are not as smart as they make themselves to be???

having a degree just means you are really specialized in one area....it doesn't make you  superior or above anyone else who doesn?t have a degree
 

RadRides

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ultoMa said:
holy **** dudes, to each his own...who gives a **** if someone doesn't value education or gladly degrades it, they are entitled to their own opinions...

we know nothing about this girl...her background, her upbringing, etc....all we have is this "chat" that ashoor had with her, which means we have no right to judge her beliefs...

if she doesn't think education is important, so what?
True, but I think most who didn't judge this poor girl have given their opinion on the matter of what she said, not her character in general. 
 

atourina

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im not educated  :wavetowel: :wavetowel: :wavetowel: :wavetowel:


i have my high school diploma.. but thats about it  :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
 
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