I just attended my first ever non-Assyrian funeral, for the husband of a company employee. Very sad, he was only 33, and died to cancer.
It was an open view of course, and had to pass by the the body, say a little prayer and reflect, and go on. I am not used to seeing a dead person in such a full and open view. Of course for some of you, you have probably been to many funerals with open view. I just don't like the idea. Maybe I am not used to it? before I went into the room, I thought it would be a little shocking, but it didn't really feel as bad as I thought.
While for the family (Italian) and the wife, they were sitting right infront of him, looking at him all day long. Can you imagine if this was in our culture? our women would be pulling their hair and tearing their clothes apart.
I asked some coworkers and they said they prefer it this way, because it feels more close. A closed view wouldn't make it as real and as close.
What do you think? Are you comfortable with open view?
ASHOOR
It was an open view of course, and had to pass by the the body, say a little prayer and reflect, and go on. I am not used to seeing a dead person in such a full and open view. Of course for some of you, you have probably been to many funerals with open view. I just don't like the idea. Maybe I am not used to it? before I went into the room, I thought it would be a little shocking, but it didn't really feel as bad as I thought.
While for the family (Italian) and the wife, they were sitting right infront of him, looking at him all day long. Can you imagine if this was in our culture? our women would be pulling their hair and tearing their clothes apart.
I asked some coworkers and they said they prefer it this way, because it feels more close. A closed view wouldn't make it as real and as close.
What do you think? Are you comfortable with open view?
ASHOOR